Dating an elusive man
Don’t leave any daylight between exclusive and boyfriend. Sometimes, when women who are new at “sexclusivity” bring it up to their men, they say something like, “So I just want to make sure you’re not sleeping with anybody else right now.” The guy says, “Nope. A man isn’t boyfriend-worthy because you feel a real connection with him.A man is boyfriend-worthy if he’s demonstrating that he’s serious about being in a relationship with you.Finally, if you DID bring it up, he would probably laugh because he already thought of you as his girlfriend already.Share this with your friends who want to know a healthy relationship timeline.But, we are technically not exclusive (meaning, we talked prior to sleeping together and said that we were both able to date others, if we wanted).However, we talked more recently and we both said that we aren’t dating anyone else, but we didn’t explicitly say that we are exclusive.
If that describes you, there is absolutely nothing wrong with four weeks of foreplay without intercourse, and if the guy bails, it’s because he really didn’t want a relationship with you to begin with. Any questions about sexclusivity can be addressed here.3. If he does — if he thinks he deserves to get laid when he hasn’t committed to you — well, I guess he’s not going to get laid. Take 4-6 weeks to assess whether he’s boyfriend-worthy A man isn’t boyfriend-worthy because he’s cute and smart and funny.
Now, this guy is such a front-runner that she drops every other prospect like a hot potato.