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The reality is this: groupies don’t care about you when you’re on the come up, because you’re likely broke and struggling.
Sadly, the groupies are trying to weasel their way into the VIP at Gansevoort to get a glimpse at Trey Songz, not come to your show at some hole-in-the-wall joint. Let me further explain why actual dating as a musician is so hard.
My opinion is that most men are doing it totally wrong.
• Work • Sleep • Family • Friends • Fitness That’s a bold statement, but I’d have to agree it’s kind of true.
Working two jobs, and living with their parents so that they don’t have to spend money on expensive New York rent.
They understand that in order to be successful you absolutely have to invest in yourself, there’s just no way around it.
As a result, women in New York (and most other places these days) have their guard up, and for good reason – there are tons of creeps out there ruining it for the rest of us. I had one girl ask me recently, I’m a digital marketing analyst, a singer, songwriter, producer and as of last year, I’ve been documenting all of my music experiences via my blog and as a contributing writer to Digital Music News. Aside from that – I have very ambitious long term career goals, and I’m pretty busy trying to achieve them.
I want to write a book, get my Ph D., land a publishing deal (with either Warner/Chappell, Sony/ATV, or Universal), win a Grammy, open a music studio in NYC, become a world class marketing consultant, and more.
I once went out with a guy who, when I asked him what his favorite band was, stammered before replying, “Ummm… To a music lover, saying you're not that into music (or just as bad, that you listen to "everything") is like saying you have no soul. There are so many benefits of listening to music, and it’s not us music lovers expect you to have the same taste (well some of us maybe, but not all of us). The guy ended up having no passion for anything except his new flat screen TV.