Dating a man with emotional baggage
The other is that he is exclusively attracted to manipulators or people who will treat him badly, which raises questions about how he perceives you.
If he's still in love with an ex but he thinks she's crazy and that she treated him terribly, you can expect to hear a lot more about this woman than you really want to.
Life is a journey, during which our luggage is constantly replenished with something new: experience, acquaintances and connections, impressions, emotions.
When they are positive, it is not difficult to bear, but as soon as pain, negative experiences and memories are accumulated, it becomes difficult even to step off the place. Emotional baggage is known as unresolved problems of an emotional nature, all disappointments, mistakes and psychological traumas of the past, which are a heavy burden.
If he thinks all women are manipulative or crazy, he probably doesn't consider you an exception.
It's not uncommon these days for people to remain friends with their exes, so just because the man you're dating is close to an ex doesn't necessarily mean he's still in love with her. Man with emotional baggage constantly returns to the starting point, and you will continue to be perplexed.